人世間的一切不平凡,都要回歸平凡,都要用平凡生活來衡量其價值。偉大、精彩、成功都不算什么,只有把平凡生活真正過好,人生才是圓滿。
Everything in the world is extraordinary, and finally it will return to ordinary, and its value will be measured by ordinary life. Greatness, splendor and success are nothing. Only by living an ordinary life well can life be complete.
真正的成熟,是接受人生的平凡,并去享受它。
True maturity is to accept the ordinary life and enjoy it.
梁曉聲說:“中國人心里都暗怕著一種平凡的東西,那是平凡之人的人生本身。”
Liang Xiaosheng said, "Chinese people are secretly afraid of an ordinary thing, which is the life itself of ordinary people."
高光的夢想與素顏現實之間的落差,是人痛苦的根源。
The gap between the dream of high light and the reality of plain face is the root of people's pain.
現實是:在這個世界上有90%的人是普通人,9%的人有小成,1%的人能成為被人矚目的人。
Reality: In this world, 90% of people are ordinary people, 9% have small achievements, and 1% can be noticed.
做主角的是極少數人,多的是像你我這樣平凡的觀眾。
The leading role is played by a very small number of people, mostly ordinary audiences like you and me.
周國平說:“人生有三次成長,一是發現自己不再是世界中心的時候,二是發現再怎么努力也無能為力的時候,三是接受自己的平凡并去享受平凡的時候。”
Zhou Guoping said, "There are three times in life. One is when you discover that you are no longer the center of the world, the other is when you can't do anything no matter how hard you try, and the third is when you accept your own ordinary and enjoy it."
也有人說,人成熟的標志是接受三個平凡:父母是平凡的,自己是平凡的,孩子是平凡的。
It is also said that the sign of a person's maturity is to accept three ordinary things: parents are ordinary, oneself are ordinary and children are ordinary.
能接受平凡,本身就是一件不平凡的事。
Being able to accept the ordinary is an extraordinary thing in itself.
杜甫在《聞官軍收河南河北》一詩中為我們描述了他的晚年生活:“老妻畫紙為棋局,稚子敲針作釣鉤。但有故人供祿米,微軀此外更何求。”
Du Fu described his later life for us in his poem both sides of the yellow river recaptured by the imperial army: "An old wife draws paper for a chess game, and a young son knocks a needle for a hook." But there are old friends who supply Lumi, and what more can a tiny body ask for? "
年老的妻子安安靜靜地在紙上畫了棋盤,幼小的孩子在石頭上把縫衣針敲彎做成了釣鉤。要有老朋友給予一些錢米,我還能有什么奢求呢?
The old wife quietly drew a chessboard on the paper, and the young child bent the sewing needle on the stone to make a fishing hook. What can I ask for if my old friends give me some money and rice?
很難想象,千古留名的“詩圣”,他的生活沒有萬千氣象,而是如此的平常不過。
It's hard to imagine that the "Poet Sage", who has a long-standing reputation, has a very ordinary life, rather than a myriad of events.
原來,大部分的人都過著相似的人生,上學工作結婚育娃,然后在柴米油鹽中老去。
It turns out that most people live a similar life, go to school, work, get married and have children, and then grow old in daily necessities.
高明的人,用平凡的生活成全自己,讓最平凡的事物逐一歸位,讓無序的生活變得有序。
Clever people, with ordinary life to fulfill themselves, let the most ordinary things return one by one, so that disorderly life becomes orderly.
接納平凡,把日子活得熱氣騰騰,生活因此不平凡。
Accept the ordinary, make your life hot, and your life is extraordinary.
一個人可以平凡,但不能平庸。
A person can be ordinary, but not mediocre.
有人錯把平庸當成了平凡,其實這是兩個概念。
Some people mistake mediocrity for mediocrity. In fact, these are two concepts.
平庸是沒有理想與追求、自暴自棄、無所作為;平凡是對自己有清醒的認知,卻不會放棄自己努力,是不以結果論成敗的坦然。
Mediocrity is lack of ideals and pursuits, self-abandonment and inaction; Ordinary people have a clear understanding of themselves, but they don't give up their efforts, and they are calm about success or failure based on outcome theory.
平凡不可怕,沒經歷過奮斗便甘于平庸才可怕。
Ordinary is not terrible, but it is terrible to be willing to be mediocre without experiencing struggle.
陳道明頗為嚴厲地回應道:“世界上沒這么多主角,大部分人一輩子可能要甘于寂寞,甘于平凡。但是,不要打擊他們的努力。”
Chen Daoming responded sternly: "There are not so many protagonists in the world. Most people may be willing to be lonely and ordinary all their lives. However, don't discourage their efforts. "
甘于平凡,卻不甘于平庸,看清生活的真相,依然熱愛生活的人,才是真正的英雄。
Those who are willing to be ordinary, but unwilling to be mediocre, see the truth of life clearly, and still love life are the real heroes.
正如樸樹的歌里所唱:“我曾經跨過山和大海,也穿過人山人海,我曾經擁有著的一切,轉眼都飄散如煙,我曾經失落失望失掉所有方向,直到看見平凡才是的答案。”
As Pu Shu's song goes, "I have crossed mountains and seas, and I have also crossed a sea of people. Everything I once owned is gone in smoke in a blink of an eye. I have lost all directions in disappointment, and the only answer is to see the ordinary."
有句話說得好:“無論多么不平凡的生命,最終都要歸于平凡的柴米油鹽;無論生命中有多少波瀾壯闊,我們最迷戀的,始終是包裹在煙火人世里,平凡瑣碎的溫暖和感動。”
There is a good saying: "No matter how extraordinary a life is, it will eventually be attributed to ordinary daily necessities;" No matter how magnificent there is in life, what we are most obsessed with is always the ordinary trivial warmth and touch wrapped in fireworks. "
真正的成熟,是接受人生的平凡,于紛繁的世間,洞明世事,知曉人情百態,卻始終以赤子之心待之,只做簡單真實的自己。
True maturity is to accept the ordinary life, understand the world in the complicated world, know all kinds of human feelings, but always treat them with a pure heart, and only be simple and true.